Understanding Intermittent Explosive Disorder in Adults and Children
Author : Dr Tulika Shukla | 31 Jan 2025

Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) is a serious, often misunderstood mental health condition that involves recurring, intense episodes of aggression and anger. These explosive outbursts are not just normal anger but are extreme, disproportionate reactions to minor irritations or stressors. IED can affect both adults and children, impacting relationships, work, and personal well-being. This blog will explore the nature of IED, its signs and symptoms, causes, treatment options, and how it differs from other disorders, both for adults and children.
What Is Intermittent Explosive Disorder?
IED is classified as an impulse control disorder. It is not just about being hot-tempered or occasionally losing control of one’s emotions. People with IED experience sudden, intense anger and aggression, which may involve yelling, throwing things, physical violence, or even damaging property. These episodes often occur without warning and are typically short-lived. Afterward, individuals may feel exhausted, relieved, or even embarrassed by their behavior. Unlike other conditions that might feature a spectrum of emotional intensity, such as mood disorders or personality disorders, IED is considered a discrete condition—meaning it’s a distinct disorder that requires specific treatment.
Who Is Affected by IED?
Both adults and children can be affected by IED, although the manifestation of the disorder can differ based on age.
In Children:
In children, IED typically emerges between the ages of 6 and 18 years. Children with IED may show extreme temper tantrums, defiance, or aggression. These outbursts may occur over seemingly trivial matters, like losing a game, being corrected by a teacher, or not getting what they want. Since children are still learning how to regulate their emotions, it can sometimes be challenging for parents and educators to differentiate between typical childhood temper tantrums and IED. However, in children with IED, the episodes are much more intense and out of proportion to the situation. These outbursts often involve physical aggression, and there is usually a recurring pattern of such behavior.
In Adults:
In adults, IED manifests in a similar way but is often more destructive. Aggressive outbursts in adults may lead to damaging relationships, conflicts at work, or involvement in legal issues due to physical violence or property damage. IED is particularly difficult for adults because the outbursts can lead to feelings of shame and guilt after the episode is over, which can further complicate the situation.
Symptoms of IED
The hallmark symptoms of IED are intense episodes of anger and aggression. According to the DSM-5, the diagnostic manual for mental health disorders, these episodes can include:
- Yelling or engaging in heated arguments
- Physical violence toward people or property
- Road rage and other reckless driving behaviors
- Damaging personal or public property
- Increased physical symptoms like headaches, muscle tension, heart palpitations, and tremors before or during an episode
These episodes are often followed by feelings of relief or exhaustion, but the person may also experience regret, shame, or embarrassment once the anger subsides.
Causes of IED
While the exact cause of IED is not entirely understood, several factors contribute to its development:
- Neurological Factors: Research suggests that serotonin imbalances, which affect mood regulation, and dysfunction in the prefrontal cortex (the brain area responsible for impulse control) may be involved in IED.
- Genetic Factors: Like many mental health conditions, genetics may play a role. A family history of IED or other mood disorders can increase the risk of developing the condition.
- Environmental Factors: Exposure to violence or trauma, particularly in childhood, increases the likelihood of developing IED. Children who grow up in violent or unstable households are at higher risk. Trauma can trigger heightened emotional responses in vulnerable individuals.
- Co-occurring Disorders: Anxiety disorder, depression and substance abuse disorders are commonly seen in individuals with IED. These disorders can complicate the symptoms of IED and make management more challenging.
IED vs. Other Disorders
IED is often misdiagnosed or confused with other conditions, especially mood disorders like bipolar disorder or disruptive mood dysregulation disorder (DMDD). While both bipolar disorder and IED can involve episodes of anger and aggression, there are key differences:
- Bipolar Disorder: Involves more extensive mood swings, including extreme highs (mania) and lows (depression), whereas IED is strictly related to episodes of aggression with no significant mood fluctuations.
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD): This mood disorder involves persistent irritability and frequent outbursts of anger, but these episodes are less intense than those in IED and are usually tied to an ongoing irritable mood.
How IED Is Diagnosed?
The only way to definitively diagnose IED is by consulting a mental health professional. A thorough evaluation, including a detailed history of symptoms and behavior patterns, is necessary to rule out other potential causes, such as PTSD, ADHD, or personality disorders.
Mental health professionals may use diagnostic tools like the Intermittent Explosive Disorder Screening Questionnaire (IED-SQ) to help assess whether someone meets the criteria for IED.
Treatment for IED
While IED cannot be cured, it can be managed effectively with a combination of therapy and medication. Treatment aims to reduce the frequency and intensity of the outbursts and help individuals better regulate their emotions.
Therapy:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is a commonly used treatment for IED. This therapy focuses on helping individuals recognize and change the thought patterns that lead to aggressive outbursts. CBT also helps patients learn coping strategies, relaxation techniques, and how to manage stress.
- Anger Management: Specific anger management programs help individuals with IED develop healthier ways of expressing and managing their anger.
Medication:
- Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs): Medications like fluoxetine (Prozac) have been shown to help regulate serotonin levels and reduce impulsive aggression.
- Anti-anxiety Medications: These can help alleviate some of the anxiety that may trigger aggressive episodes.
- Mood Stabilizers: In some cases, mood regulators can help control the extreme fluctuations in mood that contribute to aggressive behavior.
Coping and Management Strategies
For individuals with IED, managing the disorder requires a proactive approach. Here are some ways to cope with IED:
- Recognizing Triggers: Keeping track of emotional triggers and physical signs of agitation (such as muscle tension or rapid heartbeat) can help an individual prepare for a potential outburst and prevent escalation.
- De-escalation Techniques: For those around someone with IED, employing de-escalation techniques can be helpful. Staying calm, using tactful language, and validating the person’s feelings can defuse the situation. However, it's important to prioritize safety and seek professional support when necessary.
Conclusion
Intermittent Explosive Disorder is a complex and challenging condition, but with proper treatment, it is manageable. Whether in adults or children, the effects of IED can be devastating, but early intervention, therapy, and medication can significantly improve outcomes. If you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms of IED, seeking professional help is the first step toward a healthier, more controlled way of managing emotions and behavior.